Apparently I have offended the neighbors. They tell my husband that they wave at me all the time and that I never wave back. Yikes! I have never seen them wave. I in no way meant any disrespect or rudeness. This last year has found me consumed by a personal vortex of unemployment, seasonal employment and teenage angst. I have used every ounce of strength and creativity that God gave me to remain operational. Honestly, there have been days where I looked down and was surprised that I had clothes on; I simply didn't remember that part of the day.
While it pains me to realize that people feel snubbed, I do not feel compelled to explain myself or my circumstances. In today's world of reality television, people are voyeurs of others' pain, heartache and troubles. Nonsense. I'll use tissues for my issues and keep my life private, thank you. Happily, there's a lesson in this little drama.
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| Don't be like me. Stop and smell the flowers, and pay attention to your surroundings. |
Henceforth, when a friend doesn't return my call immediately or respond in a way that I deem appropriate, I will step back and say, " Hmm. Maybe they have stuff going on or are distracted." I will be more mindful that everything is not about me. It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood and I do love my neighbors, but for pity's sake, I'm just human. Please cut me some slack.
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| Spring is lovely in Silver Creek |
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